Back in my bagel baking days, I used to know a thing or two about yeast. My game has been shamelessly rusty of late, so I have started @ Genesis with a catch new work with a straightforward title: "Artisian Bread in Five Minutes a Day".
A collaboration between Jeff Hertzberg (kind of a regular dude) and Zoe Francois (kind of a kick ass chef), it presents ex-bakers like me a Class II rapid on regaining our game.
The book is presciptive and slightly technical for righ-brainers, but keep on it! As Collette Tatou chides Alfredo Linguini, "Follow the recipe!"
Baking bread is soulful, tasty and transportive. It is floured-out therapy for a high-fructose corn syrup world.
Yesterday, our sweet Bubbeh Lu passed on peacefully after 91 amazing years of Life.
As we made our pilgrimage to Florida (where else) to shepherd her through the transition, I learned many things:
1. Hospice care is truly amazing; the caregivers are kind, intuitive and filled with grace. Curiously, Hospice in the U.S. (which now serves 1.2M citizens each year), got it start under the Reagan Administration.
2. Being with someone when they pass on is a mitzvah.
3. Grandparents matter.
So on #3, my analogy is this; if parents are like video footage, tracking every moment from the most minute to the big ones, then grandparents are like cover-of-Life photos.
When I consider how my Bubbeh and I meshed together, it seems to be a highlight real. The perfect Florida holiday, replete with that moment when I would splash her "Friday hair-do" in the pool. Taking me to the PUB ROOM in Miami Beaching and allowing me to select the audacious rum raisin dessert log from the tray of delights (yes, I got sick). The journeys ot Sea World, Disneyworld and EPCOT Center (yes, got sick there too, thanks to the cotton candy Grandma Lu would score for us).
Lipstick on my cheek at my Bar Mitzvah. Lipstick on my cheek at my brother's Bar Mitzvah. Lipstick on my cheek for graduating from Penn. Lipstick on my cheek for graduating from Penn. Lipstick on my cheek just because.
Driving on A1A near South Beach and calling out another driver as an A-hole. (Grandma Lu would henceforth admit that she sometimes employed the "F-word" while driving. "I don't say it, Adam. But I think it!"
I cannot recall a single savory dish that my Bubbeh made in the kitchen. But I do remember that she ordered Dover sole at fancy joints, and that she baked the meanest mandel brot this side of Keltz.
All the Yiddish. . . seiz keit (sweet thing), shana punam (pretty head), a glic gut mier gatrufen (how lovely for you . . . as in "thanks for interrupting our discussion to share about your new promotion at work. A glic gut mier gatrufen!"
Talking on the phone instructing her how to operate the new Sony VCR we had gifted her one year. In the end, it was simply letting her know that the green button curiously labeled "Power" was a good place to start.
By now, it is my hope and expectation that you are waxing nostalgic over your own highlights of why your zadies, bubbehs, nonnas, abuelitos, oji-san's, pop pops and grandmas matter. They are that singular soul who spawns endless,, grand memories.